Triple Trouble

It is quite fitting that my 300th post is about getting dominated 3 times in one day. I think I set a personal record. The man from down under came to see me. New Zealand to be exact. He took me. Really took me and wasn’t nice about it. Why should he be? I’m aContinue reading “Triple Trouble”

Naughty Weekend Plans

In a couple of hours, I will be attending a workshop at the Paddles dungeon in Chelsea.  They are hosting Siobhan Phoenix, BDSM and Kink lecturer on a class that will teach people how to play sensually and creatively without having to use to use toys.  I am extremely curious about this workshop.  It soundsContinue reading “Naughty Weekend Plans”

Living In The Time of The Collar

Living as a slave is something I have done since He properly trained me. Living as slut is just natural to me.  Living as a collared slave will be the life I aspire to. This life isn’t for everyone. Most people are quite puzzled by it because when they meet me I seem so “vanillaContinue reading “Living In The Time of The Collar”

Thoroughbreds

Last night I realized I am not ready to be His.   The collar was in front of me, like a crown of jewels and thorns, tempting me.  I am not yet a thoroughbred slave. It takes a great deal of self-awareness to recognize when you are not ready, especially when we really want something.Continue reading “Thoroughbreds”

Greenwich, CT on a Saturday Night

There you stand on the other side of the door with your bag of goodies.  A hotel in Greenwich, CT. I’ll show you mine if you show yours but you decided to blindfold me.   You open the bag and slowly I hear the goodies come out, slowly you transform.  You are a no longerContinue reading “Greenwich, CT on a Saturday Night”

Silence is Golden

He said.  Those words are burned into my brain as I wait for Him, wait for his answer. Four years, almost.  I share this personal sentiment publicly because you, readers and friends, have been there, been my support.  You have all made me smile in more ways than I can count, made me excited, thrilledContinue reading “Silence is Golden”

An Essay on the Love Affair with My Strap-On

I still remember the day I bought Glamazon.  She was glittery and the harness was pink and shiny.  Wearing it I felt like the porno version of Judy Jetson. 100% silicone and made for his & her pleasure, since I love to fuck both men and women. Most men get scared when I bring itContinue reading “An Essay on the Love Affair with My Strap-On”

Virginia May Be Lovers, Northern Virginia is For Kinksters

Thank you to the gentlemen of Arlington, VA for providing such a fun, kinky, raunchy time for me. You made my week. I was submissive. I was dominant. I was a true slut enjoying raunchy, intimate moments with men who were veritable strangers. Your politeness made me cream.  Underneath the courtesy was your dark sideContinue reading “Virginia May Be Lovers, Northern Virginia is For Kinksters”

Power Play

I am enjoying my time with a man who is currently exploring his Dominant desire with me.  We played yesterday and although he is a novice in p/e, it is fun to teach and explore together.   It had been awhile since we last met so I think he was a little nervous.  I’m gentle thoughContinue reading “Power Play”

For Lifestyle Subs and Slaves

I sometimes get emails from subs and slaves who are new to the lifestyle or maybe just trying to navigate the emotional landmines that are often expected as a result of our open vulnerability. If I can impart any wisdom, it is to never give up.  This lifestyle is not easy and is not forContinue reading “For Lifestyle Subs and Slaves”

Slut, Whore, Slave…Slave, Whore, Slut..

On the last night of being 37, I want to get up close and personal… The title – a 3-word summary.  I am confident enough to be proud of those labels. First and foremost I am proud of being a slave.  A 4.5-year journey thus far, and the road is still long, windy and filled withContinue reading “Slut, Whore, Slave…Slave, Whore, Slut..”