Hartford Wednesday

Tomorrow I venture into a new part of CT – Hartford, the insurance capital.  I love to travel so it will be fun to experience a new area, new men and then blog some of the sordid details afterwards..One of my clients I already know is going to be fun, fun, fun…

If you are in the area and want to meet, email me.. I will be around until Thursday.

Hope a wonderful day!  Stay kinky.

your kinky courtesan xx

L Games Today…

My team decided yellow was going to be our color for the L Game challenges today.  They wanted to have full uniforms but when I told them I only owned skirts and dresses they realized it might not be possible..lol   Hence, the yellow shirts. I have decided on my black St. John sequin skirt and double layering tank tops  with my Nike black sequin high tops – since I am going to be running all over downtown….

We start at noon under the arch in Washington Square Park and then beware and behold because lesbians and bisexuals will be unleashed in teams of 3 to compete in a series of challenges for a $500 prize.   The challenges are all based on dating women..and we all know my track record on this! lol  I’m keeping an open mind though and just going to have some competitive fun..

I confess that I have been craving pussy lately so this will be a great way to meet some women too, hopefully..

Go team Lexcia!

Enjoy your weekend everyone…

your kinky courtesan xx


Dessert Domme

Yesterday I took a trip to Purple Passion because I just couldn’t wait for my kinky toys to arrive…  Hilton, the owner, is wonderful and extremely knowledgable. He generously gives a 10% discount if you identify yourself as a Domme/Dom or a sub.

What did I add to my growing collection of kinky toys?

My new vampire gloves have now replaced the bunny butt plug as my new favorite toy to use.   The black leather gloves with tiny metals claws palm-side are awesome because they are perfect for sensation play on the nipples, ass and inner thighs.  I tried them out already and they got a two thumbs up!

One can never have enough cock rings.  Mine seem to keep burning out!  lol  The one I bought today comes with a remote control which will add to the devious fun…

A new mask was needed of course.  This one is double layered so it keeps ALL light out.  I personally enjoy being masked in a session with my Master and also recently shot some picture masked and gagged.

Last but certainly not least is the rubber-stranded paddle.  This seems to be particularly fun when playing with cock and balls.

There are still a few toys left on my list, particularly in the nipple torture category.  I am also getting into the idea of pony play..

My attitude as a Top is to always keep it passionate, sensual, relatively painless and fun…I love to tease and build your orgasm to the point of no return until you can’t take it anymore, push it a little more and then….I enjoy pushing limits once I know you…Pleasure should always be a mutual exchange.

I’m the “Dessert Domme” -your secret indulgence..

your kinky courtesan, xx

My Favorite Pics

I took some time today to go through my portfolio as I will be shooting again in a few weeks.  A new album has been posted on my site with some of my favorite pics taken over the past 7 months.  There are a few that you may not have seen before taken from some of my recreational activities…shall we say.

Special thanks to the photographers whose time, energy and creativity helped to bring out the best in their subject!

As usual..I always appreciate your feedback!

your kinky courtesan xx

Work Out Track List – Thursday, July 26

Jersey Girl – Bruce Springsteen

In My Memory – Gabriel & Dresden (Tiesto remixes)

Alive – Beastie Boys

Bad Medicine – Bon Jovi

Skills to Pay the Bills – Beastie Boys

Satisfaction – Benni Benassi

Burned with Desire – Armin Van Buuren

Refreshing workout this morning..in the pouring rain no less..

your kinky courtesan, xx

Workout Track List – Wednesday, July 25

Brilliant Disguise – Bruce Springsteen

It Will Be Ok (Arctic Moon remix) – Armin Van Buuren

In and Out of Love – Armin Van Buuren

Left My Wallet in El Segundo – Tribe Called Quest

Alive – Beastie Boys

Set Fire to the Rain – Adele

Can’t Get You off of My Mind – Lenny Kravitz

Lady is a Tramp – Frank Sinatra

Good morning!  Have a wonderful, sexy and productive day!!!!!
your kinky courtesan xx

The L Games

I am super excited.  On Saturday afternoon from 12 -5, I am doing something I have never done…an amazing race style competition lesbian style with girls I have never met.  It is through my Lez Factor meet up group and there are several teams of 3 competing against one another for a $500 prize.

The challenges all take place in the West Village/Chelsea area and all involve dating and approaching women. Of course… I mean, this is the Lez Factor meetup!

I am super excited and have been chatting with my team members over email.  I suggested we merge our names together to come up with a team name so we chose Lexica…catchy, right?  It reminded me of the superhero villian Lex Luther…

This is going to be alot of fun and I am highly competitive so you can be we are going to do everything we can to win that $500.

your kinky courtesan xx


Sometimes things happen when our husbands pass out in front of the TV.  My son showed up unexpectedly to wish me a happy birthday and caught me in my negligee, stockings and heels.  I had been trying, unsuccessfully to get my husband to give me a good birthday fuck after our lovely dinner but too much scotch did him in and he chose ESPN over me.

I was horny. Masturbation at my age was not going to cut it.  I needed something thick and real. He showed up and as wrong as it was, it felt so right.  He brought me to orgasm with his gentle touch and the next moment had me on my knees, like the slut he knows his mother is.  Yes, he fucked my mouth and my cunt.   He took me on the marital bed, he took on the executive desk and finally in front of the tv, where he came…..gushing and spewing all his forbidden desire into my mouth and on my face.

A fantasy.

your kinky courtesan xx

You Say Faggot, I say Good Sissy Boy

You said that’s what you liked to be called. I prefer sissy boy.   Dressed in that tight black slip.  Fortunately, for me your balls were still peeking through when you bent over upon upon my command to inspect you.   Swollen balls – desperate for the intimate touch of a woman or man? 

Blindfolded you were mine. Lost with out sight. I paddled your ass just because I knew you wouldn’t like it  and pushing you out of your comfort zone seemed to be the right thing.  Intimacy and connection is what you were seeking but there was a sadomasochistic element to that intimacy.  It knew that Glamazon was going to be the bridge. 
I climbed on top of you  and shoved my groin with strap-on in your face, forcing you to make love to Glamazon, my beautiful dildo. I encourage you to take it deep and you did,  obediently.  Then when I was pleased with your performance, I raised my hips more and let my pussy lips graze your mouth.  Time for you to show me how you worship cunt. While you licked, I slapped your face with the dildo as a reminder just how much you love to suck cock.
You were a good sissy boy.  
your kinky courtesan xx

Officially 37

I’m officially 37.  I would like to take a moment to say thank you.

Thank you to my close circle of friends who think Im nuts but love me anyway because they see me for the loyal, passionate dedicated woman that I am regardless of how kinky I am ..

My fellow slave who has been a HUGE support system because although my vanilla friends are supportive nobody understands a P/E dynamic unless you live it.

To my nieces who are 4 and 1.5 and remind me that it takes more effort to frown than it does to laugh and smile.  They get to see only the vanilla side to me but that makes me a better kinkster I think! lol

My parents who will never stop being parents but are trying to get used to the fact that we are cut from the same cloth – fiercely independent.

Thank you to John Adams, Ben Franklin and Thomas Jefferson for providing a landscape of financial and entrepreneurial opportunity and freedom where I can express myself freely to anyone who cares to listen.

To my ex husband for setting me free. You always said I couldn’t be tamed. You just may be wrong about that…

To my clients, who keep life interesting, fresh and exciting.   Keep it cumming.. lol 

Finally to my Master, a man who has more insight, more soul than anyone I have ever met, these 3 years have made an indelible mark on my life.  No matter what happens thank you for showing me the way to truth.

your kinky courtesan xx 

Sites Every Red Blooded Male Should Be Bookmarking

I started helping men by advising them on fashion and lifestyle in 2005.  I don’t do it as often as I like but since alot of men read this blog, this would be the perfect spot to suggest some of the best resources out there for men that they can peruse without getting in trouble..

1.  Cool Material – this happens to be a site for men who love tech gadgets and well, just like the name, all things cool.  It is for the man who doesn’t need but merely wants..

2.  Esquire UK – Love the u|x of this site.  Simple clean. Oh so British.  The US site is a complete mess.   Perfect for the man who keeps up on sartorial happenings and is an international jetsetter.

3.  English Cut – ok, ok.. Can you tell I am a little obsessed with the Brits?  Seriously though, Thomas Mahon is one of the best tailor’s on Savile Row.  If you are ever in London…it is worth the investment.

4.  Alltop – Shameless plug for Guy Kawasaki’s site that aggregates news by category.  It is simple and easy.  Guy is awesome. I’ve interviewed him, hung out with him.  He is just a great businessman.  Read his book Enchantment.

5.  TopGear – Love this show.  Informative and not above my head as a woman.  Sexy and funny. Huge crush on Jeremy.  Just wish he could see me drive that Lambo…

6.  Mr. Porter.  – Net -a-Porter realized that men like to shop and care about how they look so Mr. Porter was born.   High end fashion, style tips and a retail shopping mecca so you can watch the market and your shopping cart..

7.  The Contributing Editor – Have a hankering for some badass editorial and hot, edgy models? Look no further.  Matthew Edelstein knows what he is talking about because after all, he is the former Editor of Details.  Cool stuff.

8.  How to Spend it FT’s lifestyle magazine that I am lucky if it doesn’t get stolen from my doorstep is now online. Check it out if you have an ipad. The desktop version is a little clunky.

your kinky courtesan xx

Philadelphia Sin

I mentioned I was heading to Philadelphia next week for a few days.  I do enjoy that city.  The men are quite kinky.   Hoping to get some Mommy/son role play time in with one of my regulars and it will be fun to make the acquaintance of new men too.

There is an excitement in getting ready for your date – picking out the lingerie you think he would, the feel of the garters underneath a silky dress. I never wear panties and am completely bare so I often wonder what he can see…

Turning 37

Another birthday is a few days away..I will be working in Philadelphia.  I’ve taken a few days off to figure things out – where I want to be next year, in 5 years and who I might want to be with.

There are a few things I know…

 I love my chosen career and I truly get pleasure from it.

 I don’t want to do this forever and want to be a legitimate and successful entrepreneur.

 There will always be a slave in me whether or not I have a Master in my life.

 God will never give me more than I can handle.

Just when I think I am getting ahead there is a challenge to face.  The challenges will never go away it is just how we deal with them that will change.  As I get older I aspire to listen more than talk. To be more empathetic and to open myself up and to be vulnerable.   Vulnerability was never my strong suit and instead of trying so hard to fake it til I make it…I am just going to be.

And driving a Lamborghini Gallardo is a good start..

your kinky courtesan xx

Deja Vu

Tonight it had a date.  We went to Fig & Olive, one of my favorite restaurants in the city.  I enjoy it for the great wine selection, fabulous raw bar and light mediterranean fare.   The irony, was that we were were seated at the v. same table were I had another first date that took place many, many months ago and ended v. different than this one.  

The guy was attractive and kind.   He needed to unload and he did – about his life, his past and what he wanted for his future.   He is a submissive and I could have lots of fun with in bi-fantasies with him as he wants badly to be taken by a man.  I imagined his cock 7″ and nice girth…all I care about is girth anyway..    I listened empathetically and asked questions.

 However, I couldn’t help but have a flashback to the original dinner I had sitting in these chairs – all the wine, the intimate conversation, the stolen flirtatious looks and afterwards going to his office and fucking over his desk – two crazy kids…

Ah..the memories…time to create new ones..

your kinky courtesan xx