The Selfie Obsession

In the golden era of social media,  we have seen a rise in the narcissistic need to let not only our friends but relative strangers always know where we are, what we are doing and who we are doing it with.  I have been guilty of it, just look at my twitter account.  This got meContinue reading “The Selfie Obsession”

Be Gentle with My Flower…

People always ask me what my limits are and most of the time its out of the realm of possibility for most of the people I play with so I often answer, “none.”  I finally realized that I do have one – fisting or any kind of finger mutilation of my cunt. I call itContinue reading “Be Gentle with My Flower…”

Slut, Whore, Slave…Slave, Whore, Slut..

On the last night of being 37, I want to get up close and personal… The title – a 3-word summary.  I am confident enough to be proud of those labels. First and foremost I am proud of being a slave.  A 4.5-year journey thus far, and the road is still long, windy and filled withContinue reading “Slut, Whore, Slave…Slave, Whore, Slut..”

A Slave’s Dream Cum True…

Persistence pays off.  It took 1 Fetlife email, 1 gmail introduction and later a follow-up email to get the great Maestro Stefanos attention.  In case you don’t know who he is, he is the Steward for’s The Upper Floor, where slave’s are used and train into high-protocol proper slaves.  When I was trained by myContinue reading “A Slave’s Dream Cum True…”

I’m Not Anastasia Either…

Recently I came across a wonderfully written blog called I’m Not Anastasia.  A fellow wordpresser, who writes in reality and truth and isn’t afraid to be emotionally naked in front of audience of strangers who may or may have a clue about the world of BDSM. Many of us who have experienced this fascinating world,Continue reading “I’m Not Anastasia Either…”