FINDING THE CENTER OF LOVE IN THE CENTER OF ANXIETY

On Saturday, I went to a special mass with my family, that was being said for my father. It was an abbreviated mass but the homily was just as poignant as it would have been on any given Sunday. A New Opportunity to Discover Love. In a world full of signals, it is easy toContinue reading “FINDING THE CENTER OF LOVE IN THE CENTER OF ANXIETY”

THE ACRONYMS OF INTIMACY: HOW TO NAVIGATE MODERN INTIMACY

We love our acronyms. We love to invent and modify our vocabulary. The colloquial becomes colloquial, and it seems as if every generation tries to define themselves through their own developed vernacular. Letters Don’t Make Love. People Do. I used the term “make love.” It happens from time to time. The urge to get close.Continue reading “THE ACRONYMS OF INTIMACY: HOW TO NAVIGATE MODERN INTIMACY”

NYC RESTAURANT FOOD & WINE SPOTLIGHT: CRAFT KNOWS ITS CRAFT

It is funny. you could live in a city for a long time and only recently discover a foodie institution. That is how I felt about my dining experience at Craft, Tom Colicchio’s restaurant. I have only been there twice, once for a Stalworth Winery wine dinner, which was obviously an organized event, and thenContinue reading “NYC RESTAURANT FOOD & WINE SPOTLIGHT: CRAFT KNOWS ITS CRAFT”

I LOVE YOU MEANS SO MANY THINGS

Lately, I have been thinking about the phrase, “I love you.” A phrase, I have only used, as an adult, when my heart, head,gut and even my soul are in alignment. Actually, that is not true. I have often said because it was said to me first. How often have you said it just becauseContinue reading “I LOVE YOU MEANS SO MANY THINGS”

The Older the Better

Sorry to you young women and men. Well, sorry not sorry, right? lol The older I get the more I excited I get. My passion overflows. There is so much to appreciate with age, not just because I am older but because the emotional maturity and intelligence to ground me. The experiences curated are deliberate,Continue reading “The Older the Better”

A LOVE LETTER WRITTEN, READ AND SENT

A little champagne….a large, deep-soaking tub. There is something cathartic about a bath. The warm water engulfs as the steam rises, while the champagne chills and warms in the mouth at the same time. The champagne emboldens. Here we are, away from everything and everyone. I crouch over you and take your face in myContinue reading “A LOVE LETTER WRITTEN, READ AND SENT”

IN THE HEAD OF MR. COCK-Y

You have intimately recognized me most of your life. For arguments sake, lets just say, we made acquaintance, conversing by hand. Alas, times have changed. You have matured, and in your connections with others, I am meeting new people. How exciting that is! Lately, I’ve been woken up by a manicured hand that is softerContinue reading “IN THE HEAD OF MR. COCK-Y”

FRACTIONAL LOYALTY

Loyalty is a value that holds a great deal of weight but is often underestimated. I talked about this a little in my latest audio note, but the subject is a broad one, worthy of further discussion. Understanding the psychology behind loyalty, explains a great deal about the mercurial nature of relationships. Loyalty, like respectContinue reading “FRACTIONAL LOYALTY”