On Saturday, I went to a special mass with my family, that was being said for my father. It was an abbreviated mass but the homily was just as poignant as it would have been on any given Sunday. A New Opportunity to Discover Love. In a world full of signals, it is easy toContinue reading “FINDING THE CENTER OF LOVE IN THE CENTER OF ANXIETY”
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THE ACRONYMS OF INTIMACY: HOW TO NAVIGATE MODERN INTIMACY
We love our acronyms. We love to invent and modify our vocabulary. The colloquial becomes colloquial, and it seems as if every generation tries to define themselves through their own developed vernacular. Letters Don’t Make Love. People Do. I used the term “make love.” It happens from time to time. The urge to get close.Continue reading “THE ACRONYMS OF INTIMACY: HOW TO NAVIGATE MODERN INTIMACY”
NYC RESTAURANT FOOD & WINE SPOTLIGHT: CRAFT KNOWS ITS CRAFT
It is funny. you could live in a city for a long time and only recently discover a foodie institution. That is how I felt about my dining experience at Craft, Tom Colicchio’s restaurant. I have only been there twice, once for a Stalworth Winery wine dinner, which was obviously an organized event, and thenContinue reading “NYC RESTAURANT FOOD & WINE SPOTLIGHT: CRAFT KNOWS ITS CRAFT”
I LOVE YOU MEANS SO MANY THINGS
Lately, I have been thinking about the phrase, “I love you.” A phrase, I have only used, as an adult, when my heart, head,gut and even my soul are in alignment. Actually, that is not true. I have often said because it was said to me first. How often have you said it just becauseContinue reading “I LOVE YOU MEANS SO MANY THINGS”
FRIDAY FANTASY: STAND ON ATTENTION
I haven’t forgotten about you. Sometimes you just need to let the anticipation build. Believe me, I think of you every day.
The Older the Better
Sorry to you young women and men. Well, sorry not sorry, right? lol The older I get the more I excited I get. My passion overflows. There is so much to appreciate with age, not just because I am older but because the emotional maturity and intelligence to ground me. The experiences curated are deliberate,Continue reading “The Older the Better”
A SATISFYING BOUNTY
“There is no quality I would rather have, and be thought to have, than gratitude. For it is not only the greatest virtue, but is the mother of all the rest.” Marcus Tullius Cicero I am thankful all year long but I will admit that there is a magic to Thanksgiving that annunciates the feeling.Continue reading “A SATISFYING BOUNTY”
A LOVE LETTER WRITTEN, READ AND SENT
A little champagne….a large, deep-soaking tub. There is something cathartic about a bath. The warm water engulfs as the steam rises, while the champagne chills and warms in the mouth at the same time. The champagne emboldens. Here we are, away from everything and everyone. I crouch over you and take your face in myContinue reading “A LOVE LETTER WRITTEN, READ AND SENT”
IN THE HEAD OF MR. COCK-Y
You have intimately recognized me most of your life. For arguments sake, lets just say, we made acquaintance, conversing by hand. Alas, times have changed. You have matured, and in your connections with others, I am meeting new people. How exciting that is! Lately, I’ve been woken up by a manicured hand that is softerContinue reading “IN THE HEAD OF MR. COCK-Y”
THOUGHTS ON ORGASM
Complicated but simple, our bodies are vessels for pleasure and pain. As human beings who are focused to achieve, the orgasm is high on our list. It is that one moment of satisfaction to ourselves and our partner. And yet, sometimes the best sex doesn’t “achieve” anything. It is natural to want and strive forContinue reading “THOUGHTS ON ORGASM”
MORNING LOVE -9.13.21
It is easy to forget the past, to live on auto-pilot. The age we live, our children live in, make decisions almost instantaneous and automatic. We have unprecedented prosperity and opportunity, all we need is the guts to find the path. “Happiness” is defined not as an emotion, a state of mind, but as aContinue reading “MORNING LOVE -9.13.21”
PULLING STRINGS
Well maybe its not pulling strings as much as it is manipulating the ropes. Recently, I reconnected with an old play partner who I shared some kinky times with. The story of that reconnection started off innocently enough. I have a friend who lives in a power exchange dynamic full time and suggested that hisContinue reading “PULLING STRINGS”
MORNING LOVE – 8/31/21
The dog days of summer are behind us. Another summer, another year. How are you living your life? ” A lot of people criticize Formula 1 as an unnecessary risk. But what would life be like if we only did what was necessary?” Niki Lauda
FADE TO BLACK
I remember the day you chewed me up and spit me back out. The moments right before, with such amazing clarity. The high-pitched noises of delight from other beach revelers, having as good of time as I was. I could feel your buoyancy and breadth as your swell enveloped me; inhaled your smell. You wereContinue reading “FADE TO BLACK”
FRACTIONAL LOYALTY
Loyalty is a value that holds a great deal of weight but is often underestimated. I talked about this a little in my latest audio note, but the subject is a broad one, worthy of further discussion. Understanding the psychology behind loyalty, explains a great deal about the mercurial nature of relationships. Loyalty, like respectContinue reading “FRACTIONAL LOYALTY”