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“There is no quality I would rather have, and be thought to have, than gratitude. For it is not only the greatest virtue, but is the mother of all the rest.” Marcus Tullius Cicero I am thankful all year long but I will admit that there is a magic to Thanksgiving that annunciates the feeling.Continue reading “A SATISFYING BOUNTY”

A little champagne….a large, deep-soaking tub. There is something cathartic about a bath. The warm water engulfs as the steam rises, while the champagne chills and warms in the mouth at the same time. The champagne emboldens. Here we are, away from everything and everyone. I crouch over you and take your face in myContinue reading “A LOVE LETTER WRITTEN, READ AND SENT”

You have intimately recognized me most of your life. For arguments sake, lets just say, we made acquaintance, conversing by hand. Alas, times have changed. You have matured, and in your connections with others, I am meeting new people. How exciting that is! Lately, I’ve been woken up by a manicured hand that is softerContinue reading “IN THE HEAD OF MR. COCK-Y”

Complicated but simple, our bodies are vessels for pleasure and pain. As human beings who are focused to achieve, the orgasm is high on our list. It is that one moment of satisfaction to ourselves and our partner. And yet, sometimes the best sex doesn’t “achieve” anything. It is natural to want and strive forContinue reading “THOUGHTS ON ORGASM”

It is easy to forget the past, to live on auto-pilot. The age we live, our children live in, make decisions almost instantaneous and automatic. We have unprecedented prosperity and opportunity, all we need is the guts to find the path. “Happiness” is defined not as an emotion, a state of mind, but as aContinue reading “MORNING LOVE -9.13.21”

Well maybe its not pulling strings as much as it is manipulating the ropes. Recently, I reconnected with an old play partner who I shared some kinky times with. The story of that reconnection started off innocently enough. I have a friend who lives in a power exchange dynamic full time and suggested that hisContinue reading “PULLING STRINGS”

The dog days of summer are behind us. Another summer, another year. How are you living your life? ” A lot of people criticize Formula 1 as an unnecessary risk. But what would life be like if we only did what was necessary?” Niki Lauda

I remember the day you chewed me up and spit me back out. The moments right before, with such amazing clarity. The high-pitched noises of delight from other beach revelers, having as good of time as I was. I could feel your buoyancy and breadth as your swell enveloped me; inhaled your smell. You wereContinue reading “FADE TO BLACK”

Loyalty is a value that holds a great deal of weight but is often underestimated. I talked about this a little in my latest audio note, but the subject is a broad one, worthy of further discussion. Understanding the psychology behind loyalty, explains a great deal about the mercurial nature of relationships. Loyalty, like respectContinue reading “FRACTIONAL LOYALTY”

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We soldier into the unknown familiarity of this chemical connection.  It is the beauty of carnal physics You do not mentally process what it is that happens, but certainly feel it.  A brave heart, courage, accelerated by the anticipation of a new journey into intimacy.  The brain bubbles with the excitement and confidence soars. ThereContinue reading “BLAMING NEWTON”

I sat under the clouds and looked up at the sky. Slowly they moved above me in a summer melody. The grass, under my nearly naked body, was soft, smooth and deeply green. I love the smell of grass. The view wild white caps from the wake of all the boats on the East River.Continue reading “AGE OF INNOCENCE”

I never expect a dick to be pretty. Unlike the female physique, when looking at a man naked, he was clearly designed for utility. Although there is something to be said for his back, chest and, if you are lucky, thighs. So while a woman benefits from having your most private parts sought after forContinue reading “Pretty Dicks”

Sex.  Its easy enough to glide right in.  From the unpredictable one-night stand to familiarity of married sex.  Its certainly not complicated.   Sex, in in its basic form is straightforward. Intimacy is a Different Story. It is easy to mix them up.   The emotions we feel during sex, make us feel closer to the person,Continue reading “INTIMACY’S BITCH”