relationships
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The 7-Year Itch
You have been on my mind lately. Perhaps its because Im finally doing it. I am finally building something substantial, as you always believed I would. I haven’t mourned for you in 7…
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A Little Night Magic…
I felt like I was in a time warp. We met at the Rose Bar at the Gramercy Park Hotel. It is the one place in NYC that holds memories so dear for me…
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The Reality of Fearality
I am not quite sure what it is I want. Correction, I know what I want but I am afraid to ask for it. Does that make me a coward? Fear is an…
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Deep Pockets
My sexual soul burns bright and fiery. Regardless of the activity, from my phalanges to my metatarsals I can feel that carnal energy coursing through my veins. The undercurrent of my sexuality…
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Toasting You
Yesterday, I completed my first Toastmasters speech. Although the “icebreaker” could arguably be the easiest, It is a challenge to speak about yourself in a way that engages an audience of relative strangers.…
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Submissive Integrity
The other day I had lunch with a close friend who is a brilliant architect. He also happens to be a collared slave. We met a few years ago and our bond not…
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The POWER-ful and The POWER-less
Every day we make choices, decisions. There are some we spend days pondering and others we make in a split-second. Ultimately they result in us being powerful or powerless. Now, you can argue,…
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The Briefcase
The understated accessory. Yet, a daunting one. A statement of persona. We carry a briefcase and our gait becomes more powerful, purposeful. Standing in a crowded elevator, grasping on to the handle…
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Nature v. Nurture? – Embracing The World of Power Exchange
I love, love, love Master P’s blog Dominationsubmission because he speaks with candor and empathy for all experience levels on a subject that is dear to my heart, power exchange. In fact, a recent…
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40 -1 Celebrations
It all began in Greenwich 72 hours ago. My 40 – 1 birthday that is… A dear gentleman friend put together quite a birthday party just for the two of us. After he…
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Birthday Wishes and Kinky Dreams….
In less than two weeks I will be celebrating my 40th – 1 year on earth. This birthday is particularly momentous because it is the first time in 5 years I am without…
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The High-Standard Slut
Paramour. Brainy nymphomaniac. Lover of all kinds of sex. Man or woman. Bring it on. Sex with one or an orgy. Not afraid to get messy in the moment. Fetish? Can’t…
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Love’s Many Faces…
We all have our ideas on love and what is romantic. In fact, I would argue that the greatest, most intense love I have ever felt for someone came from a power exchange…
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Appreciating a Gentleman…
On the heels of Father’s Day, I am reminded of all the wonderful men that have come in and out of my life and those I have yet to meet. Humble and at…
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State of Openness
According to Sun Tzu, “knowing the other and knowing oneself, in one hundred battles no danger.” I would like to think this applies to one’s life in general, not necessarily just in…