I have a good friend who is single, male and v. eligible and yet, all he does is complain about how difficult it is to meet women – despite the fact that he lives in a young, beach community. In solidarity, I joined a dating app for a 1 month trial. Listen in to myContinue reading “THE DATING CONUNDRUM – REDUX”
Category Archives: relationships
RELATIONSHIP APATHY
Sharing a bit of myself with you, my passion, on this first Monday in May… Relationships are our life blood. Intimacy is progress but can be intimidating. Embrace the intensity of emotion but never forget that you are not the only one in the room.
FANTASY FRIDAY: SIX RIBBONS
It’s Fantasy Friday. There is nothing sexier to me than an garter belt. I regularly wearing them throughout the year. It is the one piece of lingerie that makes me feel both feminine and powerful.
GENEROSITY OF GRIEF
I will be follow this audio note with a written companion piece. We have all suffered loss. It seems as if there is an abundance of grief, mourning, stress, anxiety – emotions that make us feel stuck. Yet, we find ourselves “searching” for the emotions that can propel us forward, for contentment and opportunity. TheContinue reading “GENEROSITY OF GRIEF”
MORNING LOVE: BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT
This audio note is a bit long but I would like to thing its a message we all need to hear. We spend so much time living up to other people expectations – not just in work but also in our personal lives. What happens when we make a decision for ourselves that are notContinue reading “MORNING LOVE: BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT”
FAKE INTIMACY
Good morning my friends, my early risers. I woke up 45 minutes ago with feelings, thoughts I wanted to share with you. I think sometimes its easier to share over an audio note, than it might be write it. I hope you find these thoughts relatable in some way. Have a wonderful Wednesday!
ADJECTIVES & VERBS
Its been a while since I have done a note for my early risers….I hope you find this to be a good one! Happy February!
PUTTING THE “GENTLE” BACK IN MEN
This blog post was originally written in 2010 from an old Typepad blog I had. It has since been adapted. If there is one animal that should be on the “extinction list” it is, the gentleman. I’ve lived in NYC for 16 years now and have been been a girlfriend, a friend with benefits, aContinue reading “PUTTING THE “GENTLE” BACK IN MEN”
The Older the Better
Sorry to you young women and men. Well, sorry not sorry, right? lol The older I get the more I excited I get. My passion overflows. There is so much to appreciate with age, not just because I am older but because the emotional maturity and intelligence to ground me. The experiences curated are deliberate,Continue reading “The Older the Better”
VULNERABLE ONES
We all have our moments. The choice is made to be vulnerable or not. It is not about being a victim or protecting yourself. I believe it is about volunteering your emotions – the good, bad and ugly, for whatever the battle. There are some paths that are long and windy and some that areContinue reading “VULNERABLE ONES”
LETTER OF LOVE
I do love you. Remember these words. Know them and feel them even when you are not sure. Though, you should always be sure at just how pure and true it is. The good, the bad and all of the times in between, moments of love drip slowly into it all. Love on its own.Continue reading “LETTER OF LOVE”
THE SECOND, SECOND TIME AROUND
Look at the transition to a new year with courage and possibility. Make it always, a life well-lived. Happy 2022.
POST TRAUMATIC GROWTH
I was listening to a Jock Willink podcast. He was interviewing Dakota Meyer, a military vet – marine and and sniper. They were discussing his career in the military, and transition into civilian life, once he retired. Dakota mentioned a conversation with General Mattis, in which the General said, ” Don’t let this experience ofContinue reading “POST TRAUMATIC GROWTH”
Creative Love
I came across a site on Instagram the other day called alphachanneling.com. It is erotic art at its most interesting. I am not much of a art lover but I find myself compelled to check my IG account a few times a day just to look and see what they have posted. The drawings areContinue reading “Creative Love”
Giving Limits
If you have read any part of this blog, it reveals my personality in an unbridled manner. I vacillate often with how much to write as much as with the content creation. When I write, I do as much for myself as I do for the selective audience it engages. It is easy to giveContinue reading “Giving Limits”