SEX & FRIENDSHIP: EXPLORING THE BENEFITS OF THE FWB CONNECTION

We want easy but we live our lives hard. The design of our lives is often around what we strive for, not just enjoying what we have. I think the friends with benefits connection is the most underrated. We fear the exploration of exploring sexual tension in our friendships, for fear of the damage itContinue reading “SEX & FRIENDSHIP: EXPLORING THE BENEFITS OF THE FWB CONNECTION”

KISS & TELL DIARY: THE RHYTHM GETS YOU

If you have read my blog log enough, you may remember the “Who’s the Man?” series. I always picked one gentleman in any given month who rocked my world. As in this note, you will come to understand that it is less about any gesture, or atmosphere, or wardrobe, and more about the energy thatContinue reading “KISS & TELL DIARY: THE RHYTHM GETS YOU”

WHEN IS IT TIME TO CALL IN “THE PROFESSIONAL?”

We look to professionals to take care of things that are either too time-consuming or difficult for us to take care of ourselves. This isn’t always just the tangibles either. I believe most therapists have their place because they help us with the discovery of ourselves, though the execution is up to us. The professionalContinue reading “WHEN IS IT TIME TO CALL IN “THE PROFESSIONAL?””

THE LOVER’S CURSE: I LOVE YOU, NOW GO.

A man I know can be so good in my bed, so in touch with my energy. His mind and body show no inhibitions. He devours me and his self-confidence sends me soaring. I’m his canvas to play and experiment. I am his muse, bringing to life thoughts and emotions he didn’t know existed deepContinue reading “THE LOVER’S CURSE: I LOVE YOU, NOW GO.”

MONDAY MORNING LOVE: SQUEEZING OUT NARCISSISM & THE GIVING GUY

It’s officially the holiday week. This means different things to different people. For many it means a holiday, family, and hours spent shopping to see the excited looks on people’s faces. There are others for which it is just means the last weeks of the year are upon us. I found a quote that encapsulatesContinue reading “MONDAY MORNING LOVE: SQUEEZING OUT NARCISSISM & THE GIVING GUY”

WELCOMING FALL AND THE DRIVING GLOVE

As someone with a fetish for high-performance cars…one thing I love are driving gloves. Yes, some may say they are a bit over the top but the feel of such supple, buttery leather against the steering wheel, providing just the right amount of “stickiness” as you take those tight turns… A serious car deserves theContinue reading “WELCOMING FALL AND THE DRIVING GLOVE”

MtM MONDAY: THE POCKET SQUARE

It is made-to-measure Monday. It is time to shed some light on one of the most necessary accessory to a man’s investable wardrobe: the pocket square. Accessories appear to be easy and yet many men hesitate. As many men ditch the tie, the pocket square is a must have accessory that can really lighten, brightenContinue reading “MtM MONDAY: THE POCKET SQUARE”

EVERY MAN IS A SNEAKERHEAD

What used to be kept exclusively or running errands and exercising, the sneaker is pushing wing tips to the side as the preferred shoe for a suit. Leather, suede, muted or bright colors, the sneakerhead is no longer a way to describe the skater or urban culture. Office culture has adapted. Baby boomers too! NoContinue reading “EVERY MAN IS A SNEAKERHEAD”

THE FOOD OF FRIENDSHIP

As you know, this blog is not for the easy listeners. As I continue to look inward and push myself emotionally and mentally in both the professional and personal areas, of my life, I wanted to share some of my thoughts. Friendship is a priority in our life that is often overlooked, When we areContinue reading “THE FOOD OF FRIENDSHIP”

BE MY MILLINERY – MEN’S HATS FOR 2022

Of all the accessories I see on a man, I miss the hat the most. The baseball cap does not count. Hats are as seasonless and fashion-elevating as cufflinks and pocket squares. An accessory worth the investment but doesn’t have to break the bank. Personally, I adore a trip to a hat shop. Salmagundi inContinue reading “BE MY MILLINERY – MEN’S HATS FOR 2022”

FASHION TREND: SEXY SEERSUCKER

While it may be May and the weather is still unpredictably cooler, summer is right around the corner. What does this mean? Every man must have seersucker in their wardrobe.   Don’t worry, people will not mistake you for a cricket player or a fan of F. Scott Fitzgerald’s classic, The Great Gatsby. If they do, well,Continue reading “FASHION TREND: SEXY SEERSUCKER”

THE DATING CONUNDRUM – REDUX

I have a good friend who is single, male and v. eligible and yet, all he does is complain about how difficult it is to meet women – despite the fact that he lives in a young, beach community. In solidarity, I joined a dating app for a 1 month trial. Listen in to myContinue reading “THE DATING CONUNDRUM – REDUX”