Why I Love the Brits…

I love British men.  They are among the kinkiest, most sexual men I have come across.  It’s not what they are into it’s the passion that they display.  They aren’t afraid to be raunchy with me.  They aren’t afraid to throw me over their desk or tongue fuck my clit till I cum so intenselyContinue reading “Why I Love the Brits…”

Power Play

I am enjoying my time with a man who is currently exploring his Dominant desire with me.  We played yesterday and although he is a novice in p/e, it is fun to teach and explore together.   It had been awhile since we last met so I think he was a little nervous.  I’m gentle thoughContinue reading “Power Play”

For Lifestyle Subs and Slaves

I sometimes get emails from subs and slaves who are new to the lifestyle or maybe just trying to navigate the emotional landmines that are often expected as a result of our open vulnerability. If I can impart any wisdom, it is to never give up.  This lifestyle is not easy and is not forContinue reading “For Lifestyle Subs and Slaves”

Two Timing…

I woke up yesterday morning and my only responsibility was to meet Mestra Jussara at her private dungeon by 11am wearing a bra and panties. I was her double for an hour session w one of her slave boys. Being a switch, I bring the best of both worlds because I can transition easily inContinue reading “Two Timing…”

Thank You for the Birthday Wishes

I wanted to thank everyone for all the wonderful birthday phone calls, texts, emails, comments and twitter messages.  My relationships with everyone of you vary – for some I am merely an author, for others I know you more, ahem, more intimately. 🙂 It is wonderful to know that people the time out of theirContinue reading “Thank You for the Birthday Wishes”

Fun Q & A

I’m offically 38.  Since I got so serious yesterday, I thought today’s post would be really light and fun. I would love to hear your answers to these questions.. Please feel free to comment or email them to me at olivia@oliviatwxxted.com. 1.  What songs are on your ipod playlists?  Anyone who has met with meContinue reading “Fun Q & A”

Slut, Whore, Slave…Slave, Whore, Slut..

On the last night of being 37, I want to get up close and personal… The title – a 3-word summary.  I am confident enough to be proud of those labels. First and foremost I am proud of being a slave.  A 4.5-year journey thus far, and the road is still long, windy and filled withContinue reading “Slut, Whore, Slave…Slave, Whore, Slut..”

A Personal Note On Independence

I reflect on my independence every day of the year, not just July 4th.  I am grateful to live in a capitalist society where opportunity abounds if you have the focus, desire and determination.  I am lucky to live in a country where I had the choice to leave the corporate world I was workingContinue reading “A Personal Note On Independence”

More Kinky Fun Facts About Olivia…

I have come to think of this blog as more of an online diary and am moving forward with plans to develop more “mature” content that will all be revealed over the next 6 months. In the meantime, I thought sharing more about myself with the readers/followers of this diary was the appropriate next step.Continue reading “More Kinky Fun Facts About Olivia…”

A Slave’s Dream Cum True…

Persistence pays off.  It took 1 Fetlife email, 1 gmail introduction and later a follow-up email to get the great Maestro Stefanos attention.  In case you don’t know who he is, he is the Steward for Kink.com’s The Upper Floor, where slave’s are used and train into high-protocol proper slaves.  When I was trained by myContinue reading “A Slave’s Dream Cum True…”