If you have read my blog log enough, you may remember the “Who’s the Man?” series. I always picked one gentleman in any given month who rocked my world. As in this note, you will come to understand that it is less about any gesture, or atmosphere, or wardrobe, and more about the energy thatContinue reading “KISS & TELL DIARY: THE RHYTHM GETS YOU”
A man I know can be so good in my bed, so in touch with my energy. His mind and body show no inhibitions. He devours me and his self-confidence sends me soaring. I’m his canvas to play and experiment. I am his muse, bringing to life thoughts and emotions he didn’t know existed deepContinue reading “THE LOVER’S CURSE: I LOVE YOU, NOW GO.”
Expectation is the killer of fantasy. Our capacity is understood and we should live in that nuanced thinking. Get drunk on the energy we harness in our environment now, within ourselves that we are willing to share with one another. Don’t try so hard. Listen closely, please.
Can you stand naked in front of yourself? It doesn’t matter how perfect your body is. Would you stand there and look at your reflection through the eyes of someone else, strange or not? How long does that moment unfold? A Soulful Stripping Fully Dressed. When the eyes meet and you can see past theContinue reading “THE POETRY OF BEING NAKED”
Another fantasy Friday. All you have to do is listen…
It’s cliche to say, “the more things change the more they stay the same.” As we try to reinvent relationships and sexuality, let’s look backwards several hundred years to understand the Courtesans have the playbook. Listen for more…
On Saturday, I went to a special mass with my family, that was being said for my father. It was an abbreviated mass but the homily was just as poignant as it would have been on any given Sunday. A New Opportunity to Discover Love. In a world full of signals, it is easy toContinue reading “FINDING THE CENTER OF LOVE IN THE CENTER OF ANXIETY”
A kiss is not just kiss. Always listen closely…
Small gestures make big impacts. If there is one takeaway from the holidays, it is that. We underscore charity, gratitude and a little extra warmth – in our smiles, in correspondence, in our overall behaviors. We all have the same amount of minutes and hours in a day. Perhaps if we use them a bitContinue reading “THANKSGIVING KICK-OFF: WHEN A STRANGER CALLS”
“If you pursue happiness, you are an ordinary person. If happiness pursues you, you are an extraordinary person. Do not chase happiness; let it chase you.” Peter Deunov Happiness, I believe, is the preliminary stage to contentment. It is the verb to the noun. A first taste to get us motivated to live our livesContinue reading “CASE OF THE MONDAYS: AN ORDINARY WORLD”
You never know what will trigger your contemplation. As I get older, I understand the fragility of life and the relationships I have. I sometimes, still take them for granted. However, today I had a little reminder… Listen in.
We love our acronyms. We love to invent and modify our vocabulary. The colloquial becomes colloquial, and it seems as if every generation tries to define themselves through their own developed vernacular. Letters Don’t Make Love. People Do. I used the term “make love.” It happens from time to time. The urge to get close.Continue reading “THE ACRONYMS OF INTIMACY: HOW TO NAVIGATE MODERN INTIMACY”
“A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That’s why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet.” Truman Capote Leaving you a little love on something we all know but take for granted…
Lately, I have been having these weird dreams about my ex-husband. It happens from time to time, so I thought I would look a bit deeper and talk to you about it. Relationships is that social architecture that continues to be studied, and in some facets, remains a mystery. What makes relationships dynamic is theContinue reading “I v. WE: FINDING & BUILDING THE ARCHITECTURE OF HAPPINESS”
“Gale Force of Love NotesDisguise themselves as Tides in an Ocean of BoatsSoftly brushing against the Sand that does not ForgetTempo of Enduring Intimacy stirs every Jet” Aida Mandic, A Candid Aim