Category Archives: intimacy

KISS & TELL DIARY: THE RHYTHM GETS YOU

If you have read my blog log enough, you may remember the “Who’s the Man?” series. I always picked one gentleman in any given month who rocked my world. As in this note, you will come to understand that it is less about any gesture, or atmosphere, or wardrobe, and more about the energy thatContinue reading “KISS & TELL DIARY: THE RHYTHM GETS YOU”

THE LOVER’S CURSE: I LOVE YOU, NOW GO.

A man I know can be so good in my bed, so in touch with my energy. His mind and body show no inhibitions. He devours me and his self-confidence sends me soaring. I’m his canvas to play and experiment. I am his muse, bringing to life thoughts and emotions he didn’t know existed deepContinue reading “THE LOVER’S CURSE: I LOVE YOU, NOW GO.”

FANTASY FRIDAY: LIVING YOUR DESIRES ONE MOMENT AT A TIME

Expectation is the killer of fantasy. Our capacity is understood and we should live in that nuanced thinking. Get drunk on the energy we harness in our environment now, within ourselves that we are willing to share with one another. Don’t try so hard. Listen closely, please.

FINDING THE CENTER OF LOVE IN THE CENTER OF ANXIETY

On Saturday, I went to a special mass with my family, that was being said for my father. It was an abbreviated mass but the homily was just as poignant as it would have been on any given Sunday. A New Opportunity to Discover Love. In a world full of signals, it is easy toContinue reading “FINDING THE CENTER OF LOVE IN THE CENTER OF ANXIETY”

THANKSGIVING KICK-OFF: WHEN A STRANGER CALLS

Small gestures make big impacts. If there is one takeaway from the holidays, it is that. We underscore charity, gratitude and a little extra warmth – in our smiles, in correspondence, in our overall behaviors. We all have the same amount of minutes and hours in a day. Perhaps if we use them a bitContinue reading “THANKSGIVING KICK-OFF: WHEN A STRANGER CALLS”

CASE OF THE MONDAYS: AN ORDINARY WORLD

“If you pursue happiness, you are an ordinary person. If happiness pursues you, you are an extraordinary person. Do not chase happiness; let it chase you.” Peter Deunov Happiness, I believe, is the preliminary stage to contentment. It is the verb to the noun. A first taste to get us motivated to live our livesContinue reading “CASE OF THE MONDAYS: AN ORDINARY WORLD”

THE ACRONYMS OF INTIMACY: HOW TO NAVIGATE MODERN INTIMACY

We love our acronyms. We love to invent and modify our vocabulary. The colloquial becomes colloquial, and it seems as if every generation tries to define themselves through their own developed vernacular. Letters Don’t Make Love. People Do. I used the term “make love.” It happens from time to time. The urge to get close.Continue reading “THE ACRONYMS OF INTIMACY: HOW TO NAVIGATE MODERN INTIMACY”

I v. WE: FINDING & BUILDING THE ARCHITECTURE OF HAPPINESS

Lately, I have been having these weird dreams about my ex-husband. It happens from time to time, so I thought I would look a bit deeper and talk to you about it. Relationships is that social architecture that continues to be studied, and in some facets, remains a mystery. What makes relationships dynamic is theContinue reading “I v. WE: FINDING & BUILDING THE ARCHITECTURE OF HAPPINESS”