We can’t help ourselves. What is familiar, what is comfortable determines much of how we live our lives, as well as the relationships we keep. This can sometimes be to our detriment. Shenpa is the feeling of being “stuck.” The emotional grab when we feel our back is against the wall. The familiarity of ourContinue reading “MORNING LOVE: SEEKING COMFORT”
Category Archives: intimacy
FANTASY FRIDAY: OUR FETISHES
Inspired by a post from a fellow companion, Olivia Sinclair, I wanted to talk about a deeply held fetish of mine, Pet Play. As some of you know or have ventured to read, I was at one point, in a very captivating power exchange relationship. When that ended, many years ago, I tucked that partContinue reading “FANTASY FRIDAY: OUR FETISHES”
MORNING LOVE: 8.9.22
Sending a little morning love your way because we all could use a little of it.
BOOK REVIEW: TAKING THE LEAP BY PEMA CHODRON
“Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know.” Pema Chodron I was lucky enough to discover the works of Buddhist nun Pema Chodron through a friend of mine. I saw him on my trip last trip to Boston and he gave “Take the leap: Freeing ourselves from old habits andContinue reading “BOOK REVIEW: TAKING THE LEAP BY PEMA CHODRON”
FRIDAY FANTASY: STAND ON ATTENTION
I haven’t forgotten about you. Sometimes you just need to let the anticipation build. Believe me, I think of you every day.
THE FOOD OF FRIENDSHIP
As you know, this blog is not for the easy listeners. As I continue to look inward and push myself emotionally and mentally in both the professional and personal areas, of my life, I wanted to share some of my thoughts. Friendship is a priority in our life that is often overlooked, When we areContinue reading “THE FOOD OF FRIENDSHIP”
It’s OK.
I talk about a few different things in this audio note but it will be ok.
BIRTHDAY THOUGHTS – A PERSONAL POST
I mentioned in a previous post, that my birthday is a time for introspection and examination of my decisions and and behavior over the past year. Well, that day is only few days away. If you read back far enough, you will know that I am pretty secure in being emotionally naked. The Stoics believedContinue reading “BIRTHDAY THOUGHTS – A PERSONAL POST”
HOT SUMMER NIGHTS: FRIDAY FANTASY
It is the first day of July and the official start to a holiday weekend. Let’s bring the heat and stickiness in and out of the bedroom. Kissing is one of my favorite activities and a great place to start.
BIRTHDAY REFLECTIONS
On the last day of June, as I move into my birthday month, let me share some of my more personal thoughts…
MORNING LOVE: A KEY TO LIFE
I would like to believe I can “think” my way into anything. The truth is that life and all of its riches, literally and figuratively, is much grittier than that. Humility, patience and compassion. The keys to a life well lived. Easy to forget, and takes lifelong practice.
FANTASY FRIDAY: STAY AROUSED
Our fantasies don’t have an end game. In fact, I believe they are meant to drive us and motivate us, building the power within us. Never give up on your desires, take pride in our sexual being and nurture it. Fantasies are often underestimated for the benefits they can bring into our every day lives.Continue reading “FANTASY FRIDAY: STAY AROUSED”
FANTASY FRIDAY: PLEASURE WAVES
I can’t give it away. You just have to listen.
ORDINARY MAGIC
Another hump day, a few notes of inspiration to get your day started.
MONDAY MORNING LOVE: REDUX
“Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn’t sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is neverContinue reading “MONDAY MORNING LOVE: REDUX”