Naughty Weekend Plans

In a couple of hours, I will be attending a workshop at the Paddles dungeon in Chelsea.  They are hosting Siobhan Phoenix, BDSM and Kink lecturer on a class that will teach people how to play sensually and creatively without having to use to use toys.  I am extremely curious about this workshop.  It soundsContinue reading “Naughty Weekend Plans”

Living In The Time of The Collar

Living as a slave is something I have done since He properly trained me. Living as slut is just natural to me.  Living as a collared slave will be the life I aspire to. This life isn’t for everyone. Most people are quite puzzled by it because when they meet me I seem so “vanillaContinue reading “Living In The Time of The Collar”

Thoroughbreds

Last night I realized I am not ready to be His.   The collar was in front of me, like a crown of jewels and thorns, tempting me.  I am not yet a thoroughbred slave. It takes a great deal of self-awareness to recognize when you are not ready, especially when we really want something.Continue reading “Thoroughbreds”

Greenwich, CT on a Saturday Night

There you stand on the other side of the door with your bag of goodies.  A hotel in Greenwich, CT. I’ll show you mine if you show yours but you decided to blindfold me.   You open the bag and slowly I hear the goodies come out, slowly you transform.  You are a no longerContinue reading “Greenwich, CT on a Saturday Night”

Silence is Golden

He said.  Those words are burned into my brain as I wait for Him, wait for his answer. Four years, almost.  I share this personal sentiment publicly because you, readers and friends, have been there, been my support.  You have all made me smile in more ways than I can count, made me excited, thrilledContinue reading “Silence is Golden”

Your Kinky “Cup of Tea” – Happy 1 Year to the Readers.

I love sex. I love kink. I really love oral sex.  My fetishes are few but definitely strong.  Power exchange is the only thing missing from my life but is worth waiting for.   I am a true hedonist with a passion for pleasure. My traditional values keep me emotionally grounded.   I don’t expectContinue reading “Your Kinky “Cup of Tea” – Happy 1 Year to the Readers.”

Virginia May Be Lovers, Northern Virginia is For Kinksters

Thank you to the gentlemen of Arlington, VA for providing such a fun, kinky, raunchy time for me. You made my week. I was submissive. I was dominant. I was a true slut enjoying raunchy, intimate moments with men who were veritable strangers. Your politeness made me cream.  Underneath the courtesy was your dark sideContinue reading “Virginia May Be Lovers, Northern Virginia is For Kinksters”

Power Play

I am enjoying my time with a man who is currently exploring his Dominant desire with me.  We played yesterday and although he is a novice in p/e, it is fun to teach and explore together.   It had been awhile since we last met so I think he was a little nervous.  I’m gentle thoughContinue reading “Power Play”

For Lifestyle Subs and Slaves

I sometimes get emails from subs and slaves who are new to the lifestyle or maybe just trying to navigate the emotional landmines that are often expected as a result of our open vulnerability. If I can impart any wisdom, it is to never give up.  This lifestyle is not easy and is not forContinue reading “For Lifestyle Subs and Slaves”

Thank You for the Birthday Wishes

I wanted to thank everyone for all the wonderful birthday phone calls, texts, emails, comments and twitter messages.  My relationships with everyone of you vary – for some I am merely an author, for others I know you more, ahem, more intimately. 🙂 It is wonderful to know that people the time out of theirContinue reading “Thank You for the Birthday Wishes”

Fun Q & A

I’m offically 38.  Since I got so serious yesterday, I thought today’s post would be really light and fun. I would love to hear your answers to these questions.. Please feel free to comment or email them to me at olivia@oliviatwxxted.com. 1.  What songs are on your ipod playlists?  Anyone who has met with meContinue reading “Fun Q & A”

Slut, Whore, Slave…Slave, Whore, Slut..

On the last night of being 37, I want to get up close and personal… The title – a 3-word summary.  I am confident enough to be proud of those labels. First and foremost I am proud of being a slave.  A 4.5-year journey thus far, and the road is still long, windy and filled withContinue reading “Slut, Whore, Slave…Slave, Whore, Slut..”

A Personal Note On Independence

I reflect on my independence every day of the year, not just July 4th.  I am grateful to live in a capitalist society where opportunity abounds if you have the focus, desire and determination.  I am lucky to live in a country where I had the choice to leave the corporate world I was workingContinue reading “A Personal Note On Independence”

More Kinky Fun Facts About Olivia…

I have come to think of this blog as more of an online diary and am moving forward with plans to develop more “mature” content that will all be revealed over the next 6 months. In the meantime, I thought sharing more about myself with the readers/followers of this diary was the appropriate next step.Continue reading “More Kinky Fun Facts About Olivia…”