So….You Think You are Dominant? The “Switch” In All of Us..

You are not  Dominant because your fetish makes you so.  You are not Dominant because you own impact play toys.  You are not Dominant because you call yourself a “Top.” The nature of BDSM is 95% mentally and spiritually based.  If you spend time in the company of a true Dominant/Master or submissive/slave they don’tContinue reading “So….You Think You are Dominant? The “Switch” In All of Us..”

Points and Figures

My curvy figure lies in waiting for you.  I love edge play.  I like to call it sophisticated sensual play because it it not for your average player.  I don’t need my sense of hearing or sight to now you have entered the room.  Your energy is so profound I feel you even when youContinue reading “Points and Figures”

Deep Pockets

My sexual soul burns bright and fiery.   Regardless of the activity, from my phalanges to my metatarsals I can feel that carnal energy coursing through my veins.  The undercurrent of  my sexuality is strong and complicated.   I like that it leaves a trickle of curiosity every where I go.  I admit discovering somethingContinue reading “Deep Pockets”

Nature v. Nurture? – Embracing The World of Power Exchange

I love, love, love Master P’s blog Dominationsubmission because he speaks with candor and empathy for all experience levels on a subject that is dear to my heart, power exchange.  In fact, a recent post came through my reader, “New Master and Experienced submissive” that caught my attention and I thought I would be so bold toContinue reading “Nature v. Nurture? – Embracing The World of Power Exchange”

The FunHouse

Just when I think I have pushed my limits, I am proven wrong. That is what Dark Odyssey is all about and this last conference in DC on President’s weekend was no exception. At the conference in 2013, I met an amazing Dominant who creeped into my brain and toyed with me in the mostContinue reading “The FunHouse”

My Dark Valentine

I can’t wait until I leave for DC next Friday. I’m excited to reunite with my all my kinky friends and the play partners who so I expertly know how to pick up where we left off. Dark Odyssey is a time to really push my own personal boundaries in an environment where the playingContinue reading “My Dark Valentine”

Pushing Emotional Boundaries

Lately, I feel v. introspective. I want to give all that I have but know that if I don’t protect myself and draw lines, who will be there to protect me? After going through a divorce, the sudden death of a lover and evolving in a power exchange lifestyle, my emotional intelligence has evolved quite a bit.Continue reading “Pushing Emotional Boundaries”

A Dark Odyssey

When we are young we are told, never to stay away from fire.  How ironic, that I found myself fascinated with fireplay or the need to just take my boundaries to a different level.  Pyrosadist, a skilled Dominant I met during the Dark Odyssey conference, lit me on fire with, burning my soul without everContinue reading “A Dark Odyssey”

Triple Trouble

It is quite fitting that my 300th post is about getting dominated 3 times in one day. I think I set a personal record. The man from down under came to see me. New Zealand to be exact. He took me. Really took me and wasn’t nice about it. Why should he be? I’m aContinue reading “Triple Trouble”