We can’t help ourselves. What is familiar, what is comfortable determines much of how we live our lives, as well as the relationships we keep. This can sometimes be to our detriment. Shenpa is the feeling of being “stuck.” The emotional grab when we feel our back is against the wall. The familiarity of ourContinue reading “MORNING LOVE: SEEKING COMFORT”
Inspired by a post from a fellow companion, Olivia Sinclair, I wanted to talk about a deeply held fetish of mine, Pet Play. As some of you know or have ventured to read, I was at one point, in a very captivating power exchange relationship. When that ended, many years ago, I tucked that partContinue reading “FANTASY FRIDAY: OUR FETISHES”
Sending a little morning love your way because we all could use a little of it.
“Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know.” Pema Chodron I was lucky enough to discover the works of Buddhist nun Pema Chodron through a friend of mine. I saw him on my trip last trip to Boston and he gave “Take the leap: Freeing ourselves from old habits andContinue reading “BOOK REVIEW: TAKING THE LEAP BY PEMA CHODRON”
I haven’t forgotten about you. Sometimes you just need to let the anticipation build. Believe me, I think of you every day.
As you know, this blog is not for the easy listeners. As I continue to look inward and push myself emotionally and mentally in both the professional and personal areas, of my life, I wanted to share some of my thoughts. Friendship is a priority in our life that is often overlooked, When we areContinue reading “THE FOOD OF FRIENDSHIP”
I talk about a few different things in this audio note but it will be ok.
As someone who was raised to make all of my decision in honesty and with integrity, well its been an interesting life. Honestly is a virtue I hold very close to my heart. Yet, I also acknowledge the gray area that exists within this high-esteemed virtue. The question is how much of a gray areaContinue reading “HONESTY IS TRICKY”
Happy 4th! This is a holiday weekend to enjoy being, no matter how large or small your level of indulgence or relaxation. Find your moment.
It is the first day of July and the official start to a holiday weekend. Let’s bring the heat and stickiness in and out of the bedroom. Kissing is one of my favorite activities and a great place to start.
On the last day of June, as I move into my birthday month, let me share some of my more personal thoughts…
I would like to believe I can “think” my way into anything. The truth is that life and all of its riches, literally and figuratively, is much grittier than that. Humility, patience and compassion. The keys to a life well lived. Easy to forget, and takes lifelong practice.
Dads don’t get recognized in the same way that moms do. It doesn’t mean that they aren’t a special and significant part of our lives.
The one I had the other day. Being in sync with your body can deliver delightful surprises. Letting yourself go by clearing your mind, and being in the moment. Intimacy is supposed to be creative. There is no pattern or routine, nor should there be. Let go. Get lost in the moment. Its your momentContinue reading ““O” IS FOR ORGASM”
A quickie for you today. After all, we all need one of those once in a while…