Have you often wondered what the sex worker never leaves home without? 1. Condoms.  A no-brainer.  I prefer Trojan ecstasy because they fit larger cocks and have extra room. 2. Rubber gloves –…

God, he knew how to fuck a woman.  He was relentless.  His thickness was beautiful and every movement, every bead of sweat, every dirty, filthy word repeated just felt so fucking good.  Yes…

There is kissing and then there is licking.  The glide of a soft, wet tongue against bare warm skin. Exploring the body in an unabashed way while he pulls  at my garter and…

If you know anything about media and advertising you will truly appreciate these print ads from the 50’s.  Some of these campaigns are brilliant and underscore the point that the writers de Mad Men…

I’ve always had a fascination with pet play.  I know for many of you this may be weird but going along with the role play idea, the idea of being a pony or…

Well… not quite but of a meetup group.  Last night, it attended a lesbian/bi happy hour at Cubby Hole and everyone began discussing how the group needed a new organizer.  I was v.…

One week into the new year and I am different.  Things are different in a positive way.  If you can believe it I am already becoming more adventurous.  Yesterday, I signed up for…

Role play is under rated.   If done right it can be magnificent, seriously sexy and highly erotic.  We allow our imaginations to be set free – creators of characters and scenes as…

Misty watercolor memories… It was lovely Toronto. Thank you. If you decide to go, fly Porter Air, they are cheap and fabulous. They also have a lovely lounge for ALL passengers with free…

Greetings from chilly Toronto!!!! Mestra Jussara and I are so excited to be here. We both just woke up from our disco naps after enjoying a gorgeous french lunch at La Societe in…

I am getting so excited to head to Canada for New Years.  This is my first real trip (Raleigh was only 1.5 days)  with a friend and colleague, Mestra Jussara and I just…

There is nothing better than pushing someone’s limit.  A sign of trust.  Limits vary and for some are not ever meant to be pushed, until the right person comes along to slowly open…

We all talk about it.  The importance of grooming, not just for ourselves but also for the gentlemen whose company we keep.  Grooming is much more important than looks.  A masculine man who…

I know it always seems as if I am thanking my clients but when I was growing up gratitude and integrity were two of the strongest values instilled in me by my parents.…