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    Urban Energy

    I spent the day in Barbara Carrella’s Urban Tantra workshop.   She is a wonderfully real teacher who appreciates that not everyone will connect immediately through the energy and breath work that leads…

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    Dear Gentleman Caller,

    Thank you for always being a gentleman when you call.   I was raised with manners and I appreciate a man with one. Thank you for being trustworthy and open.  I do empathize…

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    I came across this blog and was immediately struck….A wonderful guide for anyone new or seeking further growth..

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    Chat Noir

    We met for lunch.  It felt like forever since I had last laid eyes on you.  We had always talked about meeting here but it was so out of the way.  Today though,…

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    Vanilla Time

    Sometimes being a “lifestyle” you just yearn for a big scoop of vanilla.  The other night, I journeyed to Philadelphia for this rope clinic to learn something new and connect with a different…

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    Red Lipstick Queen

    You wrote dirty words all over my body.. You took my red lipstick and freely wrote the phrases  “slut” ” cocksucking whore”…” service me here” on the choicest body parts – my throat,…

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    Switch Blade

    I was guarded at first. Literally putting my arm against the wood as if to create a challenge.  I couldn’t help myself.  I am a true switch and that dominant in me may be…

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    Dark Odyssey Tomorrow…

    I can’t wait to be in pure kinkiness for 72 hours.  A hotel of kinksters – people who are open, sexual, playful.   The techies have SXSW, and we have Dark Odyssey.  Fetlife has…

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    Touch but Don’t Touch

    I didn’t need to know you for long but the connection was almost immediate.  There is nothing to hide. We are two naked bodies and souls with the desire to touch but only…