I want to wish all my friend a special holiday weekend. As someone with an ultra curious mind, I read up about the similarities between Easter and Passover. While they are different in many ways, fundamentally they are ground in a deep and rich history and yet, at the same time focus on renewal andContinue reading
Author Archives: The Pleasure Proseur
FANTASY FRIDAY: WHAT’S DESIRE
THE PERFECT MARTINI
A few nights ago, I had the perfect martini. Bone dry, with a twist. Simple enough. Bemelman’s in NYC. The bartenders are unpretentious, not referring to themselves as “mixologists”, letting the simplicity of a drink, speak for itself. I used to be a vodka martini drinker until my best friend insisted I try gin. ItContinue reading “THE PERFECT MARTINI”
TUESDAY LOVE: ITS ABOUT ME
Our energies are often focused on communication with others and listening, that we forget the most important person: ourselves. Sending a little Tuesday love your way via audio…or you can read on… Why do we sometimes let the ugliest parts of ourselves – , selfishness, insecurities take center stage through judgement and criticism of others?Continue reading “TUESDAY LOVE: ITS ABOUT ME”
THE BLAZE
Though it is springtime, I still love to sit around a fire. There is something hypnotic about the blaze, the color and the heat. Enjoy this fantasy of mine….not on a Friday, but on this cool Sunday evening.
Amor Fati
My best friend told me I should read the book, “The Obstacle is the Way.” I chose the audio version and LOVED it. The life I live is chock full of adversity and obstacles but over the past couple of years, I have chosen to think differently about it. Stress doesn’t have to be stressful.Continue reading “Amor Fati”
STRIPTEASE
Clothing, we put it on just to take it off. An ordinary action that is almost automatic. Yet, when we put effort and imagination into it, the right music, it can pull us into a sexual realm all of its own.
PUSSY PSA
Treat her right and she will respond in kind. Let’s giver our favorite man a clean palate for his tongue to stroke. Men, don’t be lazy and treat him right. A little trim, manscape only increases her sexual pleasure.
GENEROSITY OF GRIEF
I will be follow this audio note with a written companion piece. We have all suffered loss. It seems as if there is an abundance of grief, mourning, stress, anxiety – emotions that make us feel stuck. Yet, we find ourselves “searching” for the emotions that can propel us forward, for contentment and opportunity. TheContinue reading “GENEROSITY OF GRIEF”
FANTASY FRIDAY: SEXUAL GRAVITY
I think we should take sex more seriously. It is not just our bodies that we are gratifying, our libidos but it is also our souls and minds. Who we experience it, how close we are to that person, shouldn’t matter. Sex can deeply felt and meaningful to the individual alone.
LOVE’S TRICKY PARTNER
Love every day. Find a reason, be the reason. The vulnerability in love- pain, pleasure, joy, sorrow is a malleable emotion needing its artist to discover and bring out its beauty. Be ready to celebrate. Do not be fooled, love is not a fickle emotion, that is merely its facade. It is lust that isContinue reading “LOVE’S TRICKY PARTNER”
FANTASY FRIDAY – THREESOMES
Its the fantasy that every man wants, thinks about. Orchestrating a threesome successfully can happen in many ways. I prefer to be a spectator – watch you please and be pleased. Show me how much you can please me by pleasing her. Happy Friday. Happy fantasy.
MORNING LOVE: BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT
This audio note is a bit long but I would like to thing its a message we all need to hear. We spend so much time living up to other people expectations – not just in work but also in our personal lives. What happens when we make a decision for ourselves that are notContinue reading “MORNING LOVE: BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT”
MONDAY MORNING THOUGHTS – 3.7.22
A new week, some new new thoughts to share.
THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED
It is the road less traveled that is paved with treasures. Yet, it is inconvenient and windy, with less clarity of direction and purpose. Then, without warning, we develop a clear sense of direction and understanding and, no matter how out of the way, it becomes the road more traveled.