CONFIDENCE IN AROUSAL

I understand why some athletes do not have sex when they are in training. The constant state of arousal is powerful. You are decisive and masculine. Strong and swift, but sometimes slow and steady. I am right there with you, following your lead. I trust you completely. Let’s not let Monday feel like a Monday.

FASHION TREND: SEXY SEERSUCKER

While it may be May and the weather is still unpredictably cooler, summer is right around the corner. What does this mean? Every man must have seersucker in their wardrobe.   Don’t worry, people will not mistake you for a cricket player or a fan of F. Scott Fitzgerald’s classic, The Great Gatsby. If they do, well,Continue reading “FASHION TREND: SEXY SEERSUCKER”

THE COURAGE OF IF

I was listening to a Lex Fridman podcast last night. In his long-form chat with neuroscientist Andrew Huberman, I felt so inspired. Listen more here… As I talked about yesterday, we are all on our own journey of self-discovery. However it is important to realize that we all have the capacity for feelings, behaviors andContinue reading “THE COURAGE OF IF”

THE DATING CONUNDRUM – REDUX

I have a good friend who is single, male and v. eligible and yet, all he does is complain about how difficult it is to meet women – despite the fact that he lives in a young, beach community. In solidarity, I joined a dating app for a 1 month trial. Listen in to myContinue reading “THE DATING CONUNDRUM – REDUX”

FIRST DATE GUIDE FOR A GENTLEMAN

I was thinking the other night about the first date. The experience, that no matter what your age, your confidence level or experience, always draws butterflies. The pressure of the first impression. The desire to look and feel your best, and the preparation and care you take with grooming and wardrobe. Before the date evenContinue reading “FIRST DATE GUIDE FOR A GENTLEMAN”

MONDAY LOVE: PASSION & PURPOSE

People seem to have a love/hate relationship with stress. I think in some ways, being stressed means they are more important, have more responsibilities, and that the person who is not anxious or worried has it easy or is just sailing through life. I hardly believe that it is only people with great responsibility andContinue reading “MONDAY LOVE: PASSION & PURPOSE”