“Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn’t sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is neverContinue reading “MONDAY MORNING LOVE: REDUX”
Author Archives: The Pleasure Proseur
FANTASY FRIDAY: COME MONDAY
It’s been so long since we have connected in person. One night out. That’s it. Until next time…but who knows when that will be? Anticipation. The waiting. Come Monday, baby.
DINNER DATE: JUST DESSERTS
I woke up thinking of our date. A strong desire in my gut, emanating from the inside out. Will you listen to my thoughts?
DINNER DATE: PART DEUX
I could not have imagined a more seductive scenario, from the minute I heard your deep voice from behind me. You challenged my sexual essence, my boundaries of seduction. This was our dinner.
CONFIDENCE IN AROUSAL
I understand why some athletes do not have sex when they are in training. The constant state of arousal is powerful. You are decisive and masculine. Strong and swift, but sometimes slow and steady. I am right there with you, following your lead. I trust you completely. Let’s not let Monday feel like a Monday.
SEXY SUNDAY NOTE: ODE TO DINNER
I couldn’t help share some thought and the wild anticipation I am feeling about our dinner date. The anticipation!
FASHION TREND: SEXY SEERSUCKER
While it may be May and the weather is still unpredictably cooler, summer is right around the corner. What does this mean? Every man must have seersucker in their wardrobe. Don’t worry, people will not mistake you for a cricket player or a fan of F. Scott Fitzgerald’s classic, The Great Gatsby. If they do, well,Continue reading “FASHION TREND: SEXY SEERSUCKER”
FANTASY FRIDAY: BLAZING SUN
I couldn’t resist giving you a bit of a fantasy Friday on a Thursday. Sometimes you wake up and you just feel it.
THE COURAGE OF IF
I was listening to a Lex Fridman podcast last night. In his long-form chat with neuroscientist Andrew Huberman, I felt so inspired. Listen more here… As I talked about yesterday, we are all on our own journey of self-discovery. However it is important to realize that we all have the capacity for feelings, behaviors andContinue reading “THE COURAGE OF IF”
THE DATING CONUNDRUM – REDUX
I have a good friend who is single, male and v. eligible and yet, all he does is complain about how difficult it is to meet women – despite the fact that he lives in a young, beach community. In solidarity, I joined a dating app for a 1 month trial. Listen in to myContinue reading “THE DATING CONUNDRUM – REDUX”
RELATIONSHIP APATHY
Sharing a bit of myself with you, my passion, on this first Monday in May… Relationships are our life blood. Intimacy is progress but can be intimidating. Embrace the intensity of emotion but never forget that you are not the only one in the room.
FANTASY FRIDAY: THE NEXT CHAPTER
A peek into the next chapter of last night’s role play….
PETITE FRIDAY FANTASY: ROLE PLAY
I love a good role play. Listen to discover just how much.
FIRST DATE GUIDE FOR A GENTLEMAN
I was thinking the other night about the first date. The experience, that no matter what your age, your confidence level or experience, always draws butterflies. The pressure of the first impression. The desire to look and feel your best, and the preparation and care you take with grooming and wardrobe. Before the date evenContinue reading “FIRST DATE GUIDE FOR A GENTLEMAN”
FANTASY FRIDAY: SIX RIBBONS
It’s Fantasy Friday. There is nothing sexier to me than an garter belt. I regularly wearing them throughout the year. It is the one piece of lingerie that makes me feel both feminine and powerful.