Complicated but simple, our bodies are vessels for pleasure and pain. As human beings who are focused to achieve, the orgasm is high on our list. It is that one moment of satisfaction to ourselves and our partner.
And yet, sometimes the best sex doesn’t “achieve” anything. It is natural to want and strive for that achievement. Have you ever just relaxed into your partner and not focused on the almighty orgasm? I mean really didn’t care, if it happened or not?