Date #6…I invited him over just to play. It was time to really see what He was made of. He surprised me pleasantly. He admitted he was a bit intimidated but eager to learn and explore. I am eager to continue to push my boundaries…
Since i have agreed to take on a role as a mentor, I thought i would start a grading system..
Rope skills- B- (his first time w rope…i was impressed since he only watched videos and never actually practiced).
Impact play- B+. I showed him how to use a flogger. He has a heavy hand. He missed the A grade because I had to remind him that contrast in play is critical. A few strokes w something soft makes a world of difference to any bottom. My ass does feel deliciously sore today…
Anal execution- A+. He was gentle and confident. i appreciated thst he used a glove because safety is always a priority when playing with someone new. Apparently, anal is his fetish. I understand why.
Orgasm Control- B+. A few surprise moves made this v enjoyable for me.
Dominant Mental Acuity- C-. This is the one area that does need a little attention. Even if you are playing with someone for the first time, staying in role is critical to the success of the scene and mutual pleasure. Although, I LOVE to pull the switch..
General Attitude and Willingness- B. He admitted he was intimidated by me, which explains his lack of strong direction. He was also a bit overwhelmed by the range of toys i had…which is small compared to some closets i have seen..However, I like that he is open to anything. I plan on sending him to my friend for lessons in Fire play.
Music mood: Bob Marley “Three Little Birds” – “Dont worry about a thing, every little thing is gonna be alright…”
your slut, xo