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The Kink Questionnaire

This evening I received an email from a gentleman I met on Fetlife.  I am scheduled to be in Toronto on the 21st -23rd of December and he is attending the same swingers event.  He was gracious enough to send me my first ever “kink Questionnaire.”   It is an artfully designed questionnaire that enables him to discover my experience level, desires, interests and limits (if there are any lol) all through a simple word document.

The questions vary and include every fetish under the sun (which I like).  There are two columns:  one where you simply answer “yes” or “no” to the experience and the other 1 – 5 as to your desire for that fetish.  There are some fetishes listed that I have not even thought about…I may have to use an amended version of this questionnaire for future play partners. It makes it much more digestible for both parties to understand interests, desires, experience and expectations while providing a catalyst for a conversation that often has people unsure of what they are into or like…

Personally, I know I am experiencing a bit of a plateau in my kink life and am struggling with how to take it to the next level.  I realize the key for me is to just meet someone who can fuck my mind just as good as they can any of my holes…A tall order indeed.

What I am really excited about in terms of the Toronto trip is swimming naked outside in a heated outdoor pool…The Toronto Dominant has mentioned that this is the highlight of the party we are attending…and I LOVE to swim, especially with the contrast in temperature.  It just creates a more erotic atmosphere.

It seems between him and my rendezvous with my Dutch/Lebanese lover, I am going to have all of my holes quite full…

Merry kinky Christmas!

Music mood:  Beastie Boys – ” So What’cha Want”  – “Sweeter than cherry pie with Ready Whip topping…”

Yours truly,

Your kinky courtesan xx

I'm a writer and a lover not a fighter, except if I really want something.


  • William

    I Honestly Believe If Anyone Can Create A Kinky Christmas That It Would Be You.
    When Experiencing A Plateau… I Strongly Believe To Move Past This, You Have Hit The Proverbial Nail On The Head…Find Someone Who Can Fuck Your Mind As Well As They Can Any Of Your Delicious Holes…But I Think The More Experience You Gain The More Difficult This Becomes To Find…Happy Hunting ~

  • oliviatwxxted

    I would agree but taking the proactive approach I am currently mentoring someone…in fact, I have him watching videos on how to hogtie because that is my favorite bondage position.

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