I’ve done a lot in kink scene.  There is always a feeling of being a kid in the candy store, so much to choose fem that just looking at the options gives you a tooth ache.  I am craving to push boundaries in different ways – mentally, physically and emotionally.

After much consternation on the subject, I have chosen three areas to explore:  chinese cupping, predicament bondage and tantra.  Tantra is the only area that I have some experience.  Chinese cupping and predicament bondage are a blend of the mental and physical.  Tantra is a blend of all three.

In this post, I will focus on predicament bondage because it has been something I have learning about for awhile..and have yet to try, with the right person.

As a switch, predicament bondage appeals to me because it utilizes my skills in both spheres. I am helpless in a way, my Dominant has cleverly positioned me so that I am forced to find the pleasure out of pain and discomfort.

I am the first to admit I am a bit of brat and a baby when it comes to pain.  Its ironic given how as I child, I spent a lot of time in and out of the hospital, you would think my tolerance for pain would be high.  This is an opportunity to really push myself mentally and I am excited for what is to cum…I am excited to find my subspace again.

Music mood:  Bill Withers “Use Me”

Yours truly,

your kinky courtesan xx