We all have our ideas on love and what is romantic.  In fact, I would argue that the greatest, most intense love I have ever felt for someone came from a power exchange relationship.  There are people who believe you can only really love one person at a time.  While I respect where people come from, I do not believe in the notion of one great love or soul mate.

Admittedly, some of my lovers have been married men.  They have been my most profound and  amazing relationships. I make no apologies as we both entered the situation with our eyes open.   In those moments, we gave each other what we need and I knew they were with me simply to fulfill a small part of their life.  There were several that lasted a few years and a few that burned hot for only a few months.   The feelings and emotions were authentic as well as the mutual respect.  Every relationship has limits and boundaries, some are just more defined than others.  I don’t want to ever have to restrain how I feel for circumstances in a situation.  I would sooner walk away.

I don’t believe in monogamy/being faithful to just one person but I do believe in loyalty.  I don’t believe you can get everything you need from just ONE person.

Love is like a prism.  The beauty is hidden within the angles and hits you most profoundly when you least expect it.  Truth be told, I am a romantic.  The best gifts ever given to me were not the most expensive but the ones that were so obviously from the heart.

The most important thing I have learned about love in all my experience with P/E, swinging and vanilla relationships –  great loves are often imperfect.  It is being open and vulnerable to that imperfection that makes it abundant and unforgettable.

Thank you for listening with an open mind and heart.

Yours truly,

your kinky courtesan xx