Caveat Vendor
I have become a huge fan of The Erotic Review. The boards are a great place to get info about the profession from both the hobbyist and the ladies’ POV. There are many boards out there of course, by TER, is the easiest to navigate and has the best class of gentlemen. I can often be found on the “Politics & Religion” board playing mental footsies with the hobbyists over the latest hot-button political and social issues.
Among all the fun, kinky and light topics discussed, there is always mention of LE stings on the different state discussion boards. One hobbyist was honest in saying how important it was for the “John” to protect themselves and that if a girl was NOT screening to beware.
I understand why men believe there is safety in anonymity and outright lying in some cases when contacting a provider. Those aren’t the people I want to spend time with. What they fail to see is that in this case, there is more safety in transparency and to a certain degree there is anonymity too. You are paying me for my discretion and my ability to understand your needs beyond just the physical. Otherwise, you could just go to a bar and meet someone and enter into the unknown.
Sometimes we have to write about what may be uncomfortable and boring to create awareness.
Yours truly,
your kinky courtesan xx
5 Comments
micklively
Interesting. I guess there are different risks for each. For example, ladies suffer physical violence whereas gents suffer blackmail, both, mercifully it seems, quite rare.
oliviatwxxted
the laws are different in the states then in the UK, Europe & even Canada. I don’t think blackmail is an issue, in fact the reason why you come to a professional is because you security. There is no telling what can happen if you meet some random girl at a bar.
micklively
I’ve heard of scams but I can’t attest to the truth of them. There was a ring busted in Nottingham a few years back, who were using girls as bait to entice punters in, then robbing them at knife point. I guess there’s no profession that is entirely free from ne’er-do-wells?
oliviatwxxted
No there is not. I think the bottom line is trust your instincts.
micklively
Come on! You know men are utterly incapable of coherent thought in the presence of a beautiful woman. Our brains turn to blancmange.